Clarisse Thorne wrote something once that stuck with me. She said that “kink sex could be love sex as well”.
I had a pretty nice experience a while back. A woman came over to my place, we smoked a little pot and she pegged me. It was a really “sweet”. It wasn’t anything earth shattering. We weren’t in love and she’s not my partner. It was more of a one off thing. I almost felt as though she were doing it for me, as a favor. There was one point when I made a moaning sound that was ‘feminine’ (for lack of a better way to describe it), and she perked up and smiled a bit and looked down at my eyes. “Uh huh” she said, in recognizing that kind of moan. She smiled.
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